Monday, December 6, 2010

Your Babys Night Call




Yes its a call at night about something that they need to subdue them to sleep ! Its what we call the (pacifier) . Its a Dreadful device when you realize the attachment the child has to it, especially when they cry about one and you just cant find it. Breaking this pacifier addiction can be hard and can be simple , depending upon your approach to the matter. Its a common thing for a child to need something to sooth them to sleep or calm down. There are many other ways to get them to do this without anything ( pacifier especially). For one babies are very needy and you well just don't have all the time in the world to just rub your child's belly to get them to sleep or massage them when ever they are having a fit. But with those very methods are just as effective. Baby's need comfort on so many levels and having a pacifier is one habit that must break eventually. The longer you wait the harder it will be to get this sucking device out of the picture. One other way would be to let your child cry and that will be a very harsh way to do it but yet its probably one of the most beneficial ways to, plus in days your child would not need it no more. Only thing is , are you willing to do that. If you talked to many child development pediatricians they would recommend this as well. Same concept of your child going to bed at night and cry's, you can only do so much before the child realizes they just don't need a pacifier, or its bed time. Just as we need children to be children , we need them to also become independent down the road as well. That comes with some understanding between what is best for you and your child's development.

Shupes

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Computer Explosion

In ten years there will be a computer explosion, like no other. Its the evolution of the computer industry. Every ten years there is a drastic change in technology in regards to computer platform and speed. Its a assumption to this happening but yet if you look back the last 10 years, computers have changed considerably to speed and applications used to run them. Its to the convenience of the user to suggest implementations to the computer demands of the world.  Its only to what degree of a change that would be is at question. Did you know that Intel the biggest chip maker already had the super fast chips for computers in the early ninety but could not use them because the industry of computer has not caught up yet to this upgrade! Computer Micro chips are always a down gradable cost item within the market because they are constantly being replaced with a higher grade or type to keep up with demand and evolution of the computer. Technology is a market that will change till the end of time due to the fact that mankind is striving for new devices and new ways to do things. Its through out own persistence of change that we change the world, but will it be for a positive one is the question? Lets just hope so!

Shupes

R U Prepared?

Prepared for the new year and what it may bring?
Prepared for the making a some New Years resolutions?
Prepared to be with Family and Freinds to close this year out?
Prepared to do something for your fellow man ?
Prepared to go beyond what is expected of you ?
Prepared too be Prepared? For what ever you think you need to be prepared for!
Many may say that they are prepared, but the truth is that they aren't! So many things to do and you may not have the time, but we all have to make the time.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Computer Resources

Keeping your computer optimized is the only way to insure your fast downloads and quick internet searches. Through a commitment to you and your computer to maintain a routine maintenance to clear out unwanted clutter. Every time you use you computer it is designed to collect information and store it within your computers memory. Its through its own process of collecting information its designed to slow you down eventually. So to prevent that you need to keep most of your information and files on a separate storage unit to keep the flow going. Theirs many ways to keep information off your computer so its not compromised. Time is the factor to a better operating system and faster and most powerful computers. In ten years, our computers are going to be dinosaurs compared to today s. Its always a good idea to have many computer resources to get information about how to maintain your system to be on top of what is going on in the tech world.

Your Change UP

With the changing economy and the scarce jobs , lack of momentum of positive news, could possibly suggest that you too need to expand your mind into something that would educate yourself into something new. Continuing education can be a very complicated if you have not been in school for sometime. Getting you foot back in the door can be easy only if you don't feel pressured, nor have the time to do so. If school isn't in the picture for you then maybe there's a inner desire to connect with you inner self perhaps through meditation. there are many physical forms of personal enhancements.If that isn't what you like to do then , open your creative mind and start painting and drawing to appreciate your artistic hand.Its said that through art you can open your mind to endless possibilities.
Keep Your Mind and Body Active
Shupes http://www.shupes.net/

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Your Web Site Presence

Its a common way to get people to your web site by submitting your URL to search engines. But is that enough to get traffic your looking for. Answer is bluntly no , there is a way to link up to many sites to get the most impact from the community of the web. Search Engines are platform for web sites to submit too , but back-links are the sticky web presence to the Internet. It keeps your website somehow interconnected to the world through as many back links that are most relevant to your site. There are many ways to obtain back links, one such way is to write articles , Seo your web site through Optimization  Its always good to promote your web site through a PPC , but not always depending on if your selling anything or just promoting your site. Neither less its always a good idea to get the word out. One prime way is to connect on the social networking sites and common a gathering of people who find interest in your site. Through your promotion on your Facebook it can turn into a very successful venture, but don't stop there. You want to get deep down into the networking connections to get the most traffic possible.
There might be room for even more success through a reputable company who can walk you through a link building program. Many people choose this path because it gives them more resources to choice from. One place that I would recommend is called Link Building Domination. It works for many already, with many positive reviewers. Keeping an eye out on the many ways to be on top of the search results is a daunting task but its a relieve when others are looking out for you.  

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Credit Card Garbage





Can You imagine the amount of advertising the credit card companies pay for to get you enticed into there offers. Sure credit cards can never really be overlooked when 8 out of ten people carry them. What makes people believe that they are getting a good deal into having a credit card is that its what builds up that outstanding credit report that which other borrowers look at when you purchase that home or car.Do we as consumers really want credit to buy everything that we need ? If every American looked at there interest rates and account for how much money we throw away into interest charges and fees , its a no brainier really. Credit cards are leaches onto your fiances and even can cause more trouble than good. I once was a believer into that a credit card is a good addition to my wallet, until i realized that my credit is based on ethics that I don't believe in . For one I'm practically giving my money away , that I worked so hard for to begin with. Second I don't believe in spending more than I can afford, and just having a credit card implies this more than you think. Third I feel the whole credit score system is a scam to get people to hold onto credit when they really don't need it to begin with, so you can pay more money. The whole credit score system needs to be revamped and a whole new principle needs to be established. Otherwise I believe consumers are on the road of self destruction and putting our economy and future of our children at risk. Not to say it already is with the deficit is all ready.

Shupes

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Would You Lie to Be Popular?

Its a question that some people ask especially children going to high school because that is where most of the drama is created in a young persons life. Its no surprise that high school is a place of such gossip is created. Popularity among the grades is a must to create this illusion of ranks among the adolescents to give kids to scale themselves on. Most kids don't want anything to do with this creation of popularity because its a distraction to the purpose they are even there to begin with, but to whether they want any part of it , is not by choice it is given. Most High school kids gain this through there honorable or dishonorable achievements in school.
So the Question remains , would a person lie to achieve popularity in school? So I went on this talk asking kids from all grade levels in high school to my dismay all said no they would not. Mainly because it would come back to haunt them in ways they can not imagine. Then my next question was , do you know anyone that has lied. And all but a few have said Yes. But would not disclose any other information than that. My interviews where like so discreet because no one wants to anyone to know what was being said, nor any names given.
I recently sen a movie that implied all this and is such a great watch for teenagers and even adults. Easy A is the name of the movie.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

R U Black Friday Material

The Busiest Day of the Year is about to arrive and many people are going to go out and get a good deal on some electronics. Many people are going out and reserving a spot at some locations as we speak to get a good spot getting in these particular stores. I for one am not a sponsor of such events because I do not or have ever participated in these events. I actually find it very barbaric to muster my self about other people to get something I know dam well I can wait later to obtain. If you feel that shopping on a time like this is a must then you must be prepared for big crowds, people shoving and screaming. Its pretty much gonna be chaos! But then again I hope its all worth it for you. Ill be home and relaxing watching a Movie with the family and drinking a good cup of coffee wishing everyone a Happy Holiday Season.
Shupes

Monday, November 22, 2010

Missing and Never to Be Found

We hear stories every day about a little girl being abducted or a Murder being committed , sometimes not even to far away from where you live. And we even hear about shootings that leave neighborhoods in the state of fear for even decades, Every story there is lives being affected in ways that we hope we never experience because its the last thing you would think would ever happen. I know that there are people out there that trying to make a difference in so many ways to fight against such crimes and put there own lives on the line at times to apprehend these criminals.
The Endless Number
Thinking about the many children and people that never get to be found .Its a piling number that will never seem to fit well in my mind. I try to compare it to the many people that have died in the past in wars and in history that have that same kind of massive affect of death. Its so astounding that with so many people that have passed away not many people come to claim these bodies. Yet it its happening in so many cities as well all over the US today.
Our Connections
When I think of People i think of faces and places where there from . With the many attributes that they contribute to society, big or small. To me every person is an assets to everyone else and even the planet itself, like chains that are connected to one another. When these links start breaking off then the whole chain link it self becomes very insecure and looses its sole purpose to contribute. Everyone has there own analogies of what people relations mean to them, of course in its context.

Getting to the truth of who, what , When , where and WHY. Is like opening Pandora's box !

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Whats on your Christmas List?

I Gave my kids an option to write down what makes them the most happiest for Christmas in the a form of a list. But the catch is that there is no guarantee that what you want is what you get. I have found that many kids seem to want things that they see on TV but yet its not something they want , just something that interests them is all. I Told them also to make a list of things that they will do for there fellow man as well. cant live in this world if you cant give back to the planet or too the people around you. I want my kids to understand that life is not something to take for granted especially when it comes down to Christmas. My kids know why this day is special and that it needs to be respected. During the Holiday season people always seem to loose perspective on what is important at times and that we all just need to sit back and reflect a little to get a better perspective is all. I feel life without the media in times like these would be appreciated because all the Holidays seem to be exploited in so many ways through it.
Happy Holidays

Friday, November 19, 2010

Are You a Christmas Scrooge?




It was the year 1995 when  I worked for this big electronics firm and I always gave what I could to my fellow co-workers who needed help especially on the Holidays. There was this one person that i was always helping out and gave him rides to work and bought lunch or shared mine. When one day one of my other friends told me that that guy I help out is a millionaire , I laughed and said;" Do you really expect me to believe that",I mean who would when I know where he lives and everything . There was nothing to suggest that he was. I confronted my co-worker and it took a lot of work to get him to come clean, Then he spilled the beans and told me everything, that he was gonna tell me but really wanted to know what kind of person I was before he told me. I then said to him doesn't matter I don't care anymore about what you have to say just don't talk to me anymore. Really, how would you feel after three years helping out someone and find out that you where being used like that. I still donate my time and money to charity's and I am sad that I have not helped anyone like I have helped my disassociated friend.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Did You Know?

Did you know that for hundreds of years all over the world coffee houses where the one of the noisiest places to be because of the many people that come there to drink there coffee and socialize. As of today the coffee houses are so quite and for the most part !  it mainly because of the way we all connect today in the world, and that's through the Internet on our computers or laptops and even phones! Social Networking sites have been the the culprit for the most part for indulging our minds to this complex world of the Internet, I wonder if anyone in these coffee houses notice whats going on around them while they are browsing the Internet???   I honestly would have to say NO!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Your New Toy!

Remember the WII , well that Wii may be crying WE WE all the way home. Because with the XBOX Kinetics its got the same concept of body movements to utilize the game functions but with out anything (Wires or controls) but your body. Its  that just well marvelous considering every possible video game you play, rely on a players reactions to the controller! And the Kinetics just pick up it all up from you based on your body position. Its accuracy is extremely high and may cause some players to scratch there heads, thinking if the game has issues. Many gamers have already given this system some good reviews but are waiting for a stream of opening premiere games to play  With the season coming to an end, its being projected that the XBOX  Kinetics will be on top of everyone's Christmas lists.  
Seasons Greeting 

Monday, November 8, 2010

A Big Pump And Dump?



Yes it been a big squeeze for the American Dollar. The Value is depreciation it self faster than any currency in the last 10 years. The Government has been pumping money they printed into the economy to keep it afloat. But, Isn't that what people do in the stock market to get people to drive stock prices, so they could dump there couple million shares and leave your position to the drill of the downward spiral. Doesn't it seem to be an inevitable situation that the market reacts to this artificial foundation. Eventually at some point in the future most of this money that is put in the market needs to be recovered and then WHAT. Will the market be able to accept that, knowing that now. For how long will the Government do this? Its been said that our grandchildren will still be paying on this tragedy. Will this country just fizzle out and just deflate itself from its own arrogant Greedy ways.  
Please share your thought about this very important matter.
JS

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Super Hero Complex





Just as our society has its villains and its hidden masked people who seem to show up when we seem to find our selves in awkward situation. Its not just a comic book character I'm talking about its more like a good Samaritan who is there to help who show those qualities of a super Hero. That's why its a good thing that people understand that without the whole idea of comic books and Movies , who is up to take on the task of being a super hero. I'm sure that the Villains will come by the numbers. We all know that History surely dictated that in its own way. You can pick and choose your own villains within your lives as well.

Media"s Influence

Its with the Media to point out a particular area of a person who cares more about the community , or other people around them. Look at all the comic book movies made lately. it surely dictates the importance of the eternal struggle of this same kind. Is the era of mans existence to inseminate a character of such qualities to serve mankind. I'm assuming that somewhere in a lab there is tests being done to create such a being, weather it be for good or bad is just up in the AIR. I for one feel that if there is something stirring and alternate force will counter it. Reason for this is assumption is this Bad/Good seem to go together , just as Night/Day, Republican/ Democrat and so on.

Society' Influence

Its what we all here in the classrooms, church telling there children . Be a positive influence ! But yet many seem to fail to do so .Not meaning that they will become villains in there own right just that they are mutating to find out within themselves who they want to be. Its that journey our lives that takes us all to our resting place and shape us to who we ultimately become.

So the Question here is what are YOU! Or what do you want to become or Shape yourself to be?

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Daydreaming about Halloween!

Don't let Freddie catch you Daydreaming much less falling asleep ! And watch out for Jason who seems to catch you off guard when you are making out with your girlfriend.Don't forget about Micheal Myers who seems to be standing in front of your bed watching you sleep.Where to run and what to do ? Oh My !
Don't worry about it ! Ill just tell them why would you want to kill me anyway when I'm gonna die eventually one day! Your wasting your time killing people when you could be giving everyone a good time socializing about what matters most ,Halloween Fun!!!!   Really wouldn't you rather sit down and share a cup of coffee with these characters and get into there heads for once.

Halloweens Prank!




Its just another Halloween Costume to impress , who your self ? No its more than that even . Looking past the fact that it a costume worn once a year is not a reason for concern for many because its about the Spirit of Halloween. Involving yourself with a fun activity or gathering will most certainly be worth it.  Its can be a major social event of the year with so many parties. The most beneficial aspect of Halloween is that no one really knows whose behind the mask! in conclusion you can pull off some major pranks on Halloween and practically get away with it.
When i was a child i remember older kids stealing younger children s trick or treat bags and running off with them, it was shocking to see that it came to that point that children would be that desperate for candy that they would consider this. Although many of the creative ideas and fun activities that will be going on it can be a surprises of your life, when someone pulls a prank on you this Halloween.

Monday, October 4, 2010

Is Social Networking Costing You ?




You may know what the phrase comes from ( the new movie Social networking) . Based on a real life events of the founder of Facebook. Yes social networking is a huge market for many things other than people gathering together exchanging thoughts and information.
Identity theft
Its a place where you can loose your own identity and actually become a victim of identity theft.But that's all up to you if your willing to put your information out there for everyone to see. In the case of the Movie the scenario is much different , more like a bunch of greedy people want to take control of his idea and use it for there own personal use.
Spamming
Through social networking many advertisers try to get you to buy through the there channels and even misleading groups or friends on your lists try to get into spamming you with there own agendas. Keeping a perspective on why your there is , the only reason you stay there because of the connections to people you know.But is it worth it getting stuff thrown in your face everyday on your wall posts and mail, application requests. I know that there are settings on Facebook to help with many issues in regards to handling your account, but if you have to block your friends posts and requests then why do we have them as friends if we have to deal with this? Besides any socail netowrking site would be prone to this behavior , its a cesspool .
Game addiction = Lost time
Not to mention the amount of time people spend playing the games there. Its overwhelming to comprehend the wasted time used to play games there.  I know i used to be a game player there, when it dawned on me that i have more important things to do rather than tend to my farm or feed a fish. I know games are fun to play but when they take away to much time on my day and  its got to stop. I know that for some it is even costing them more than there time ,. but there money too , buying game credits.

In conclusion Facebook neither less is a valuable asset into the social networking stream on the internet just that people need to focus more on why there their? And of course manage there time better so they don't feel at the end of each and everyday that they could have don't something more productive.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Your Benefits !




The Benefits I'm talking about is what keeps Americans alive during crisis and in times of war or even in Natural Disasters. Keeping the situation in control is what we all want when your whole world is turned upside down. There are many types of benefits I'm pertaining too and that's unemployment and general aid , which I'm sure there are many more out there. Point i want to make is that when the country uses to many benefits for the people of the country then what happens to the system as a whole? Unemployment is a big factor into how this all plays out because a large percentage of people that get benefits have been recently unemployed. Close to 10 percent of all states are in the unemployment line so that is a reason for great concern. More unemployed = More Benefits= More crime = More stress for each and every state . Its been a very bumpy ride for America this last 15 years and has a lot of potential to get a whole lot worse.  Government over spending on so many levels, that seem to  push us all closer into a pre- great depression. Maybe that it was destiny that this country reform its self as a whole to survive as what it will become into something far worse if we don't.  Connecting the dots across the board may take some time.

Friday, October 1, 2010

Define American Dream!

Its all but a question we seem to fool our selves answering cause there is really only one dream that exists in my mind and that's just the fact that all human beings are a free people. But according to the American dream we all have to become home owners to live that American dream. Yes that might be true for some but the big surprise is that there is consequences for living your American dream. That could be in the form of tax's or actually loosing your property to foreclosure , or maybe just having bad luck in general. To live with the many benefits as an American and to be able to serve your country is the most beneficial parts of this dream. All dreams have good parts and bad. To dream is to expand your mind and make a difference in the world and people that you love. Better to dream than not dream at all, one dream at a time.   Whats your dream ?

Monday, September 27, 2010

WiFi's Upgrade is in the Process !




FCC is in the works of passing some (white spaces) signals that are found through regular broadcasting television signals which are broken down into splicing the signals usage. What is white space?
White space is a powerful, short wave length signal that can collect and transmit information through most man made structures, walls, buildings, etc.Ultimately leading to super fast signals and wider range which wireless broadband companies would benefit from, is why this is one of the loops they must hurtle to get the FCC to approve. So soon enough this could lead to cheaper costs involved for consumers.
By JShupe  ref : www.shupes.net

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Your Unconscious Connections To The World

Its a simple process we all take for granted and even will perhaps become the demise of our own society in general. When I reference process I mean Economy that keeps a society connected as a whole , to function as one to benefit everyone that is contributing into it. Its what We as people that live here and there , could be any where in the world that has a government know this that when there is no laws to protect you then you and your family become vulnerable. And not just that simple principal in place its the whole cycle of business that everyone rely s on to provide what we all need to survive or function as we all see fit.
When one part of our economy starts to collapse then other parts start to become weak as well, may ultimately lead to a domino effect. Sometimes its the last thing on your mind when you go somewhere to get a drink or a fast food item on the go and notice that the price for some items are not the same as they once where and its causing a stir within other food items to do the same .The building blocks to a healthy country is stability within the all markets to keep good business flowing and consumers to progress with there own ventures.
Historic data has proven that all great empires come to a collapse and its something to think about because we live in a bubble of false security that seem to blind us all that we are safe living in country's that have a solid government providing resources and stable economy is exactly how I'm suggesting about this invisible blanket that we all live under.
The purpose here is to point out that in history that many great civilization have come to crumble due to reasons within or out , regardless we don't understand is why would a country become so great just to fail later on? Many factors come to mind such as over population ,disease ,corruption,dictatorships, are all but some. 

Friday, September 24, 2010

Future of Entertainment



Its been 35 to 40 years we had VHS video , isn't that correct? Then we converted to DVD which is still the norm! The conversions are caused by the industry's quick turn for a buck nothing more, mass production of movies is what opens the eyes of the entertainment business. Get it out quick and fast. Take a look at what this particular industry has done to the Biggest names in the Movie rental business. Get it out Fast Quoted : Netflix beat them to the punch! How come Blockbuster nor even Hollywood video see this coming ? Well they where to busy counting there money of course. Lack of understanding what the market demands is what caused there own demise. On Demand Movies from your cable provider are cashing on this as well, that maybe the demise of Netflix as well,  anyway we can all avoid the materialistic handling, its a benefit. But there's a market for people who want to buy, the market will change again where there is no product anymore just data, where like your computer its stored for you on your television. Which would be very convenient for anyone who has a vast collection of movies and they would not have to worry about storing or shelving anything. The whole concept of any kind of information, is to compress it and store it, and that is what is happening . Maybe good for many but bad for some because the when something is changing not everyone is prepared for it.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Exploring Your External Drive

You have your own way of saving your precious data that your computer may use everyday. Back up this and back up that , save here and save there. When you extract your data to your externals to keep it safe. But is that enough to have a secure data storage ? Is it enough to have storage devices to keep your data safe ? External drives purpose is to keep your information safe and secure for future use and reference. What do you do when your external source has decided to not work anymore ? what happens to the data that you have worked so hard on that is now lost in limbo?

Firstly your data is not totally lost when your drive gos down, there are data recovery services that are there to help you do just that but the catch is its going to cost you, cost you more than you think. Ask your self that question is it worth it? And other than that fact these services may not be able to recover all the data either. A  typical extraction from a defective device is 145 depending upon how much data is on it , can run into the thousands of dollars .

Second there are ways to get your drive to work again but only temporarily to get your data out. All those methods getting to the data are very risky and may ultimately become a waste of time and also a lost drive as well. External drives have a history in fact to break down , why that is a mystery .

Problems with computer components are a normal assurance, nothing really lasts forever and especially when a computer has so many dependent functions to keep it working properly. So best advice to anyone who has problems with external drives is to have more than one kind or more than one so that if one fails  the other will back you up.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Is the Apple Ipad Worth it ?



Its a big rush to the store and get this many anticipated device in in our hands. I was said this would revolutionize the computer ? As far as many can see this device has been nothing more than a ploy to buy applications just to get it to do what you want or even function. Like all hardware you need software to make it run , and so it gos like all company's who have come and gone , the race is one not just to get you apple Ipad but to take a deeper plunge into your wallet to get what the developers are after, more money. 
As far as i can tell there are some good aspects about it , for one it has a big screen. Here is the apples technical specifications page and you tell me what you think. http://www.apple.com/ipad/specs/

Remember all devices need Applications to function and some companies monopolize the whole idea to get you and me to buy these technical toys. One big player is Microsoft . Finding what you want depends on where you go and how much you want to spend. In the end ask your self are you happy with what you got?  


Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Facebook Gamers Goldmine

Its no surprise that Facebook draws a crowd of social media zombies , but its the games that get everyone zoned out and preoccupied with games that just do that keep your mind out of the real world while you tend to your farm or out in Mafia wars taking a ht on someone. The fact of the matter is in the end what dos this time get me, a bigger farm , more things to do to waste more time on a game that ultimately will get me into trouble with my normal life activities.One thing to factor into what benefits to gaming is , is my time used constructively. The most baffling question of all is what do the players get out of the experience as far as spending all that time on a game? Is facebook going to offer money monetary prizes for individuals for playing there games to motivate more people to play? Everyone wants something for there time and that's how Im starting to see it. Instead the other way around , where players spending there money in a game that really is taking up all your time when we all know we could be doing something more constructive.  To get a perspective of who and how many people play these games here is a link and youll be suprised.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/TECH/02/23/facebook.games/index.html?hpt=C2

Monday, February 22, 2010

Relationship on the Rocks

Its a position we all seem to get too when times are hard or when we feel the most unwanted or neglected. We confide in other people to make us happy. What ever the reasons to your relationship troubles , help is not very far behind. Depending on the problems your having the number one reason for any kind of tension in a relationship usually lye's with the communication issue. If you both can communicate freely with one another then the problems will in time blow over faster than they have come. But if that one major stepping stone isn't there , then the relationship will dissolve like ice cream on a sunny day.
Commitment is an issue that many try not to define, its a something that just is. Following the reasons that you have a relationship to begin with is why you should know what the words commitment mean and live by them. Why get married or have a girlfiend if that is a hard part of any intimate part of your life to understand. So many people are so easily swayed to defining relationship on there own terms of understanding, which of course is why there is so many problems in so many marriages today. 

Your Commitment is solid?
Your relationship worth saving?
Your understanding to what makes a relationship work makes sense?   
Your communication is open on both sides?
You have support from family and friends?

Looking at the whole picture and im sure youll see that a relationhip can only be as complicated as you want it too be, but remember that the more complicated you get it, will your relationship work the way it should? Sure we can all abandon ship and find someone more compatible, but the real issue is every relationship has problems and how you deal with your problems is really how you will ultimately find that your relationship is worth more than you have ever known. Here are some tools that you can use to understand better what it takes to keep a relationship alive.
http://www.shupes.net/Shupes-Family-Marriage.html

All I want is that you fight for what you beleive in and do what ever it takes to acheive that goal, but understanding that everyone has a journey in life and to able to love someone that you want to spend the rest of your life is worth fighting for.

Your Security Matters


People from all walks of life are connected to you and your family through your school and neighborhood and church. Its only natural to be curious to know who these people are and what influence they have on your family and friends.With so many social structures around its hard to pin point where the positive and negative safe ground really is. The greatest downfall to any social relationship in this world is Internal deception. The people that we trust the most seem to be the ones we should be worrying about the most. But that isn't the case always, just it would seem so. Our contact with other people that we confide in the very important life issues like , childcare, home care, in general anyone that has the greatest contact with you or family.
Its apparent that research of an individual is the only way to know to some degree is necessary.There are all kinds of research tools available. Just need to know what kind of check you want to do, according to the situation that you are in. Running a background check of an individual is very simple in fact , it takes a matter of minutes before you get all the information that you are seeking. It applies the same as we scan our computers for viruses , so we must do the same with people that we know very little about whom are asking for your trust. Its your right too be informed of anything that you think that its be a threat to you and your family. Even if it a phone number that someone keeps harassing you .Or someone you would like to know that has passed away. Either way you will be able to get valuable information to protect your self.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Buyers Perception

People's perception of products have always been what the media illustrates to the people through the media. Its no surprise sometimes when you go to the store and immediately you are influenced by an ad that you may have seen earlier or from an indirect source. That is called pulling your strings to get you to make a quick decisions based on a visual representation or just by mere glamour. Its the job of the media and there little tricks to get you to buy there products, never disclosing the full product information. We all know what it feels like to be pushed into a decision based on just limited information. The television commercials are notorious for that kind of influence to the mass's. To many marketers is no big thing to mis-lead people and even manipulate you to think what they want you to think, it's there objective.

Take a Moment 

Always take a moment and think about what is going on and then make a final judgment by just saying no. Really say no and that alone will give you time to see what its about from looking outside the presure of buying any product of any kind. Its almost like letting other people try it before you to see if what they promise is in fact true and its almost having a lab rat to test what your interested in. Just to get the information you need to make sure you are not being taken advantage of or mislead with promises that are being said or disclosed to you. Being a consumer , we are all at risk everyday when we purchase merchandise or in fact anything at all. Most of the time we are being taken advantage of the people we trust already like family ,friends ,but most of all the government , but that is besides the point im making here. Im talking about the companies that surround us with out everyday products.  

Be a Better Shopper

In the long run you will see that , you decisions on making that major purchase or any kind at all would be more less likely to end up making you pissed off at your self and others. Its a kind defense, using information to benefit you. There are so many ways to get the information you need to research the products you buy.

Resources that you need

The Internet for one, its the number source of information in the world that is endless, boundless. Which is where you will find 99% of the information you need and the other 1% through your network of friends or family. Its a gathering of information to see what the pros and cons are to anything at all. One good source is consumer reports , where you can find most products to stay away from. But realistically you just need you gut and wit to know sometimes. 

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Googles Phone Version

The Never ending changing cell phone platform at which all phones base them selves on evolution of itself.Which direction is this market really going? Google is starting to get the attention of many people who are wondering about what they have to offer in this particular area of the market. Google is going to introduce this new phone (Nexus) to you and what it has to offer on there new web site( google.com/phone). We all noticed that big giant companies allways try to get there hands on the big market movers that bring in tons of revenue and interest from the mass's. In order for Google to pull it off there They would have to use every bit of every marketing idea out there. One of the biggest eye openers is the the applications that are available for this phone are only 18,000 and the iphone have about 100,000, big diffrence when considering that a large majority of people use there phones for specific programs and application that are available to them. The Nexus Allots only but a tiny 190 megabytes of storage for downloaded apps.

The phones sleek comfort to the touch and grasp to its touch makes me wonder if the touch screen limitation are worth it. , there is no physical touch ringer, nor can you multi-touch screen like the I-Phone. Phone shopping can be frustrating when looking for a phone that fits you needs , you should check the phone out only because its new and may make you turn your head but may not open your wallet.