Relationship on the Rocks

Its a position we all seem to get too when times are hard or when we feel the most unwanted or neglected. We confide in other people to make us happy. What ever the reasons to your relationship troubles , help is not very far behind. Depending on the problems your having the number one reason for any kind of tension in a relationship usually lye's with the communication issue. If you both can communicate freely with one another then the problems will in time blow over faster than they have come. But if that one major stepping stone isn't there , then the relationship will dissolve like ice cream on a sunny day.
Commitment is an issue that many try not to define, its a something that just is. Following the reasons that you have a relationship to begin with is why you should know what the words commitment mean and live by them. Why get married or have a girlfiend if that is a hard part of any intimate part of your life to understand. So many people are so easily swayed to defining relationship on there own terms of understanding, which of course is why there is so many problems in so many marriages today. 

Your Commitment is solid?
Your relationship worth saving?
Your understanding to what makes a relationship work makes sense?   
Your communication is open on both sides?
You have support from family and friends?

Looking at the whole picture and im sure youll see that a relationhip can only be as complicated as you want it too be, but remember that the more complicated you get it, will your relationship work the way it should? Sure we can all abandon ship and find someone more compatible, but the real issue is every relationship has problems and how you deal with your problems is really how you will ultimately find that your relationship is worth more than you have ever known. Here are some tools that you can use to understand better what it takes to keep a relationship alive.
http://www.shupes.net/Shupes-Family-Marriage.html

All I want is that you fight for what you beleive in and do what ever it takes to acheive that goal, but understanding that everyone has a journey in life and to able to love someone that you want to spend the rest of your life is worth fighting for.