Facebook Gamers Goldmine

Its no surprise that Facebook draws a crowd of social media zombies , but its the games that get everyone zoned out and preoccupied with games that just do that keep your mind out of the real world while you tend to your farm or out in Mafia wars taking a ht on someone. The fact of the matter is in the end what dos this time get me, a bigger farm , more things to do to waste more time on a game that ultimately will get me into trouble with my normal life activities.One thing to factor into what benefits to gaming is , is my time used constructively. The most baffling question of all is what do the players get out of the experience as far as spending all that time on a game? Is facebook going to offer money monetary prizes for individuals for playing there games to motivate more people to play? Everyone wants something for there time and that's how Im starting to see it. Instead the other way around , where players spending there money in a game that really is taking up all your time when we all know we could be doing something more constructive.  To get a perspective of who and how many people play these games here is a link and youll be suprised.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/TECH/02/23/facebook.games/index.html?hpt=C2

Relationship on the Rocks

Its a position we all seem to get too when times are hard or when we feel the most unwanted or neglected. We confide in other people to make us happy. What ever the reasons to your relationship troubles , help is not very far behind. Depending on the problems your having the number one reason for any kind of tension in a relationship usually lye's with the communication issue. If you both can communicate freely with one another then the problems will in time blow over faster than they have come. But if that one major stepping stone isn't there , then the relationship will dissolve like ice cream on a sunny day.
Commitment is an issue that many try not to define, its a something that just is. Following the reasons that you have a relationship to begin with is why you should know what the words commitment mean and live by them. Why get married or have a girlfiend if that is a hard part of any intimate part of your life to understand. So many people are so easily swayed to defining relationship on there own terms of understanding, which of course is why there is so many problems in so many marriages today. 

Your Commitment is solid?
Your relationship worth saving?
Your understanding to what makes a relationship work makes sense?   
Your communication is open on both sides?
You have support from family and friends?

Looking at the whole picture and im sure youll see that a relationhip can only be as complicated as you want it too be, but remember that the more complicated you get it, will your relationship work the way it should? Sure we can all abandon ship and find someone more compatible, but the real issue is every relationship has problems and how you deal with your problems is really how you will ultimately find that your relationship is worth more than you have ever known. Here are some tools that you can use to understand better what it takes to keep a relationship alive.
http://www.shupes.net/Shupes-Family-Marriage.html

All I want is that you fight for what you beleive in and do what ever it takes to acheive that goal, but understanding that everyone has a journey in life and to able to love someone that you want to spend the rest of your life is worth fighting for.

Your Security Matters

People from all walks of life are connected to you and your family through your school and neighborhood and church. Its only natural to be curious to know who these people are and what influence they have on your family and friends.With so many social structures around its hard to pin point where the positive and negative safe ground really is. The greatest downfall to any social relationship in this world is Internal deception. The people that we trust the most seem to be the ones we should be worrying about the most. But that isn't the case always, just it would seem so. Our contact with other people that we confide in the very important life issues like , childcare, home care, in general anyone that has the greatest contact with you or family.
Its apparent that research of an individual is the only way to know to some degree is necessary.There are all kinds of research tools available. Just need to know what kind of check you want to do, according to the situation that you are in. Running a background check of an individual is very simple in fact , it takes a matter of minutes before you get all the information that you are seeking. It applies the same as we scan our computers for viruses , so we must do the same with people that we know very little about whom are asking for your trust. Its your right too be informed of anything that you think that its be a threat to you and your family. Even if it a phone number that someone keeps harassing you .Or someone you would like to know that has passed away. Either way you will be able to get valuable information to protect your self.

Buyers Perception

People's perception of products have always been what the media illustrates to the people through the media. Its no surprise sometimes when you go to the store and immediately you are influenced by an ad that you may have seen earlier or from an indirect source. That is called pulling your strings to get you to make a quick decisions based on a visual representation or just by mere glamour. Its the job of the media and there little tricks to get you to buy there products, never disclosing the full product information. We all know what it feels like to be pushed into a decision based on just limited information. The television commercials are notorious for that kind of influence to the mass's. To many marketers is no big thing to mis-lead people and even manipulate you to think what they want you to think, it's there objective.

Take a Moment 

Always take a moment and think about what is going on and then make a final judgment by just saying no. Really say no and that alone will give you time to see what its about from looking outside the presure of buying any product of any kind. Its almost like letting other people try it before you to see if what they promise is in fact true and its almost having a lab rat to test what your interested in. Just to get the information you need to make sure you are not being taken advantage of or mislead with promises that are being said or disclosed to you. Being a consumer , we are all at risk everyday when we purchase merchandise or in fact anything at all. Most of the time we are being taken advantage of the people we trust already like family ,friends ,but most of all the government , but that is besides the point im making here. Im talking about the companies that surround us with out everyday products.  

Be a Better Shopper

In the long run you will see that , you decisions on making that major purchase or any kind at all would be more less likely to end up making you pissed off at your self and others. Its a kind defense, using information to benefit you. There are so many ways to get the information you need to research the products you buy.

Resources that you need

The Internet for one, its the number source of information in the world that is endless, boundless. Which is where you will find 99% of the information you need and the other 1% through your network of friends or family. Its a gathering of information to see what the pros and cons are to anything at all. One good source is consumer reports , where you can find most products to stay away from. But realistically you just need you gut and wit to know sometimes.